July / August 2004
Volume 22, Number 4

Now, as I write this article, I can tell you what it means to me to be a responsible person. A responsible person is someone who takes care of themselves and their own things and jobs. A responsible person is mature.

I pay my bills on time. I balance my checkbook. I plan, shop, cook, and clean up dinner for my family once a week. I’m responsible for making sure I look OK before going out. I am responsible for making sure I remember my family’s and friends’ birthdays and buying cards and sending them. I would have to say, “Yeah!”, I am responsible for many things. I am responsible for making good and appropriate choices as to what I should do and for what people should be in my life. I am responsible for me and not for other people.

I’m more responsible now that I’m older and more independent. I have my own place in the downstairs of my parents’ house. It’s pretty cool having my own place. I clean it every week. I do my weekly laundry. I spend my afternoons after work watching TV, listening to music, playing pool, scrap-booking and talking on the phone to all of my friends. I know what it’s like to live in an apartment with some support from my parents.

I also am responsible for my social skills when I am out. I like going to weddings and parties and I know how to be responsible for my behavior and my actions. My friend, Megan, is getting married in November and I’m one of the seven bridesmaids. That’s a big commitment and I will learn how to be a responsible bridesmaid. I’m responsible for giving her a bridal shower with the other six bridesmaids… yes, my life is busy and sometimes it is hard to remember everything and how to do it the right and responsible way. I try hard and I am proud of me!